D08 · Boredom and Helplessness
Passivity and learned helplessness
Believing that effort is futile and surrendering agency to circumstance.
Cues
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“It’s time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet.”
Grasping at finiteness
We are attracted to freedom's power but repelled by its demands, so we draw back, deny it and 'grasp at finiteness', living as if our situation were fixed and immune to change. This relieves anxiety at the cost of growth.
“Although I cannot move and I have to speak through a computer, in my mind I am free.”
“[Chekhov] made a vow to himself: no more bowing and apologising to people; no more complaining and blaming; no more disorderly living and wasting time. The answer to everything was work and love, work and love.”